I heard a guy discussing why men have such a hard time with homosexuality, specifically pertaining to the lack of masculinity. He said that men and women, during sexual interactions, are engaged in a power exchange. It is assumed by this man, that the man in the scenario is the one who believes he has the power. In fantasy the straight man sees himself dominating the woman. In our culture men are presumed and encouraged to be the more powerful one., i.e. masculine =power. He exact words were "when a man fantasizes about a woman and then considers the possibility that he may be in the position of that woman should he find himself in a homosexual encounter, he gets scared, like Oh my God!" So, when a straight man begins to fantasize about another man they immediately shut the thought down because they do not want to be in the position of the woman. I think this is interesting. What does it say about how men look at women? And the assumed power roles in the bed room?

marrige

marriage requires an affair with yourself

and now for the funnies

house is almost ready; cleared of clutter and dog poop. had a fabulous idea with yankee girl and a new blog will be born tomorrow that all women between the ages of 25-35 will love. Tomorrow ladies we will take you back, way back, to a time without worries and your best friends jessica and elizabeth were always there to keep you company and help you figure stuff out.
Had a great day with the kiddos, freed them from their fear of the dark with a little Berenstein Bears action. IN THE DARK and THE BAD DREAM I highly reccomend to anyone with a complex involving darkenss and monsters. if it can happen to sister bear, it can happen to you.
laughed and laughed with them, they are my morning funnies

Packing up the House

Spent the day making a movie (on the hunt) with the kids. We made clay animals and made a movie. Good times, the mouse and bunny hop aroudn looking for food, find healthy food and turn their noses up at it only to discover my fav, mtn. dew and M&Ms. Its about a min and a half and will post it when I figure out how. Spent the rest of the day cleaning out the house. All that needs to be done is clean the rooms and put a sign up!!! WHoa hoa! one step closer to home..ahhh...nothing really that I pondered today except poverty. It is the only circumstance that renders you without choice, especially if you have children. On a lighter note. off to work on the movie and plan my yellow brick road home, i must watch out because I might just need to look right under my nose and click my mother-fuckin heels!

A day stuck in the mud, mentally

why are people dressed up like other people singing other peoples songs making so much money? and we applaud them..
Did you know there are teachers in South Korea that make more money then the professional baseball players there? Some make millions every year!

agghhh hot and busy

Hello people, Im super busy right now moving and such. I have two new blogs I need to follow and promise those hotties I will get there asap. Spent the weekend on the lake again, GOT TO LOVE IT. would rather be there then roasting in this god forsaken place. I had a question..any help please.. why is starbucks water in their plastic cups from their tap so damn good? They aren't selling any of the bottled -help the dehydrated children- water when the free shit is so wonderful.